20 Questions to a Better Personality

You are a WRCL--Wacky Rational Constructive Leader. This makes you a golden god. People gravitate to you, and you make them feel good. You are smart, charismatic, and interesting. You may be too sensitive to others reactions, especially criticism. Your self-opinion and mood depends greatly on those around you.

You think fast and have a smart mouth, is a hoot to your friends and razorwire to your enemies. You hold a grudge like a brass ring. You crackle.

Although you have a leader's personality, you often choose not to lead, as leaders stray too far from their audience. You probably weren't very popular in high school--the joke's on them!

You may be a rock star.

I feel a bit of a twitch when I think of starting over with someone new. More than a twitch, my left eye has been twitching all morning. I’m having a difficult time deciding who to go with. Someone who describes her approaches as eclectic or someone who has a Ph.D? I’m more naturally inclined to go with a woman given some of the nature of certain complexities. Or a 6 foot redhead? Ha. I have actually seen this woman work. It is required by Indiana law that you attend a class when you divorce, if you have children. It basically outlines the do’s and don’ts of parenting in a divorce and she was the person that taught it. I remember liking her then…but that was a couple of years ago.

Something happened last night that has not happened in…Years? Certain actions or movements will send me sliding into a place that I am familiar with but into a corner that I am not. nothing changes it. there doesn’t really seem to be any comfort to be found except within myself. I’m glad that, that aspect was not pressured and seems to be well understood and not taken personally. It’s all very textbook. A new perspective might be good.

s. has encouraged me to put absolutely no pressure on myself about where I want to be, to save up money and then apply it to whatever decision I make. Whether it is to save $ for IU (that would require quite a bit of patience) or to move or to just take a course online. I think that is a good idea. I’m not even going to think about the future right now. I am terrible at waiting. I think it is what I will do though. Practice waiting. In the meantime I am thinking of taking a class in the fall at the Waldron Arts Center.

I need to free up some brainwaves to help Ari get ready for the first grade. s. gave me some good advice regarding e. since he knows that I am not ready to take him to court. Now to follow through with it…